tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post807676760400783721..comments2015-06-03T15:53:06.007+02:00Comments on D for Divorced, not D for Dead!!!: a divorcettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10364970181037951112noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post-59551412310486966672008-11-30T01:16:00.000+02:002008-11-30T01:16:00.000+02:00hey anon,thanks for your kind words and sorry for...hey anon,<BR/><BR/>thanks for your kind words and sorry for the late reply...<BR/><BR/>it's good to know i helped with your mood, even if it was "a little" ;))<BR/><BR/>and hun, there is more to life than a good man... mesh battanek bas ya3ne, it's a thought :))a divorcettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10364970181037951112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post-89523578764737495382008-11-11T23:39:00.000+02:002008-11-11T23:39:00.000+02:00Begad ur blog and your style in writting is very n...Begad ur blog and your style in writting is very nice :)<BR/>i felt like am reading aletter for an older sister of mine ..i hope god help you ,,i was feeling bad about my life but reading your words lightened me up ... alittle :P<BR/>anyways i hope u hang on there ,,someday you will meet a good man who erases all bitter feelings inside ..<BR/>sallam :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post-27698131533748383022008-04-18T09:36:00.000+02:002008-04-18T09:36:00.000+02:00heyy habibty, okhtek 7ommmmaaaaaaret 3araby, we be...heyy habibty, <BR/><BR/>okhtek 7ommmmaaaaaaret 3araby, we be deel kaman :((<BR/><BR/>haffakar fe mawdoo3 el translation da we harhga3lek feeh... promise :))<BR/><BR/>khaly balek men nafsek ya gameela :)a divorcettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10364970181037951112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post-36187977312917559542008-04-18T09:00:00.000+02:002008-04-18T09:00:00.000+02:00me salaam my love its unfair we need a translation...me <BR/>salaam my love <BR/>its unfair<BR/> we need a translation<BR/>all women have to read this<BR/>iam waittingla3lahakhierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14099174683525669109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post-28969832794614887872008-04-16T16:46:00.000+02:002008-04-16T16:46:00.000+02:00eventuality, i know what you mean about equality.....eventuality, <BR/><BR/>i know what you mean about equality... and you're so right that way :)<BR/><BR/>u know what, coming to think of it, when we get married, we do that without realizing... give up our own dreams and have theirs that is!! and it's not just in our culture, by the way... it is only more redundant in our culture because it's masculine!a divorcettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10364970181037951112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post-14605427434902995832008-04-16T16:38:00.000+02:002008-04-16T16:38:00.000+02:00Arima, for starters, welcome to this blog :)my sis...Arima, for starters, welcome to this blog :)<BR/><BR/>my sister would agree with you, she is totally putting off marriage until she makes something out of her life.<BR/><BR/>perhaps i subconsciously neglected that part because i met my x when i was too young, fell in love shortly after and got 'bunkered' right away :) <BR/><BR/>you're right though! but sometimes women fall in love at young age, and well, may be it's ok to get married soon, and live up to the expectations, only they should also maintain their own character and identity and keep it developing. <BR/><BR/>i've seen husbands who help their wives achieve their dreams... they look great from the outside, but i am always too afraid to take a closer look, i would like to think that the closer look is even more beautiful... <BR/><BR/>i'm an optimist, shoot me :)))a divorcettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10364970181037951112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post-38269766249300020462008-04-16T16:26:00.000+02:002008-04-16T16:26:00.000+02:00I think that women in our society live with the no...I think that women in our society live with the notion that they are incomplete without a man. That is why when they get married they become part of their husbands life, and if there's anything else left, they spend it on their own lives. To be more specific, marriage, in a lot of cases in our society, isn't about 2 human beings coming together and sharing a life where they both participate in their own ways. No. it's about how a woman enters the life of her husband, who becomes her whole universe and dictates her dreams and aspirations -even if not explicitly- from that point onwards.<BR/><BR/>I think a healthy relationship can emerge only when both parties feel that they are equal and that they are bringing something to the table. And I am not talking about the feminist notion of equality, but rather equality based on the fact that both parties are independent adults that chose to be together and feel that they want to share their lives together.Eventualityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01462468168665719164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-237632641660540532.post-77984350568425055112008-04-16T12:03:00.000+02:002008-04-16T12:03:00.000+02:00Great post but I think you negelct to say explicit...Great post but I think you negelct to say explicitly enough that as women we should develop our own characters, aspirations and lives before we 'stand by our men'.<BR/>I think every woman should concentrate on achieving her dreams before she marries and commits to a man, from what I've seen relationships force women to put their own development on hold so we should do everything in our power to overcome that.<BR/>Perhaps that's why women mature more quickly than men, a God given chance to achieve what we need to achieve before we are 'bunkered' (as my great grandfather liked to put it)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com