Most Important thing about divorce, given the fact that it's a life changing act of freedom, that is to realize that you have every right - at any point - to change your mind and choose to use your freedom again to weigh everything in the light of the experience and in the light of the little glimpse you've taken during the process...and just say: no, I realize it could work out. or: no, I will pay the price and continue.
It is your right. It is your life. It is your freedom.
And no one has the right to judge you then, just like they had no right to judge you when you wanted out.
It takes steel guts to choose either ways...
Consider only yourself.